Men’s Obsession with Degrading Women and High-Value Men
Men's obsession with degrading women is nothing but the projection of their insecurities and lack of self-esteem. Men often feel the need to put women down because they deem them to be superior and intimidating. This is an article I want every little girl, especially teenage girls to read. I wish I had known these life lessons when I was a kid, but we all learn from experience. It is not about women hating men but about women valuing themselves as humans.
So right off the bat, I’ll tell you...
Ugly, broke, and insecure men usually portray these characteristics. Here is a sample of an ugly man who wanna be with a generic beautiful woman. A woman can be clearly out of their league but they still got the guts to talk shit about a girl if they refuse to be with them just because men's ego is so big that they think women should always be under them. Let's not forget that these ugly boys will also cheat on you even though you are a goddess. Why? Because they wanna prove that even though they are ugly and broke they can still get other girls. So why give those ugly and broke guys a chance, right?
🟡 Things and quotes that men and pick-me girls say and do to devalue women:
“Oh, she is pretty? She must be a slut or stupid.”
“She is good at gaming? There must be something that she lacks in-game. Maybe she is a fake gamer or she is just high-level because of blah, blah, blah.”
“She is an honor student? Oh, that’s what girls do, they are just a teacher’s pet. She is not that smart!”
“She is beautiful? But can you see she uses makeup? I am all natural unlike other girls like her who use makeup!”
And the list goes on, guilty of the quotes mentioned above? Maybe you are not even aware you are becoming a pick-me girl yourself like these low-value men surrounding you.
In my 19 years of existence (as of 2024), I've never met high-value, mentally stable, and financially stable men who try to devalue women like ugly, broke, and insecure men do. I know you can name famous people and rich men who devalue women but let me just tell you my own experience. Usually, these broke guys are the ones who spread rumors and gossip that a woman is a gold digger and a slut even though they are not even wealthy, to begin with. So babes, only talk to high-value men who have their own hobbies and strong beliefs. In short, a man who got his shit together. Those are the kind of men you wanna interact and grow with.
Connecting to low-value men will only affect your mental health and you will never be treated any better. My guy acquaintances now are people who do not waste their time and have things and errands going on with them. I know you may think that kind, wealthy, and gentlemen are probably scarce nowadays. Wrong. No girlies, this kind of man is not scarce, but you are probably looking in the wrong place.
Do not go to dating apps, bars, clubs, or online games to find a man of value. (This may probably not age well if the only thing we can do to connect is through apps in the future, but some general ideas in this article are applicable.) There is a probability that you can find high-value men there, but it is very rare to find one.
So, where do you find high-value men? These men are usually in the fields of finance, technology and sciences, business, and other fields (again, this does not mean it is still the main field to which they belong in the future, as we all know jobs are changing nowadays because of technology). Attend meaningful events that upscale your strengths and network at the event itself. Engage, and try to be authentic. Being authentic and passionate about your hobbies and plans for the future will lead you to the right connections and high-value men. I learned a lot during my pre-teen and teenage years that it is a mistake to engage with men who do nothing but sit in front of their PCs unless it is their business, freelance work, or if they make a hobby that can benefit them from it. Men should know how to schedule things and not waste all day on useless and trivial things. There is a time for everything.
Avoid guys who ask for sensitive materials upfront. Ugly and manipulative guys only want your body and content to get an edge over you. You are always a pawn and the source of their ego. These guys have no respect for women and don’t know how to communicate well. Avoid nonchalant men too. They will agree to anything and cannot defend you when you are in trouble. Have you heard this line, "Yeah, you are pretty, but send me a selfie without makeup?” It is okay to be confident without all the fashion and makeup we girls do, but asking that is their way to belittle you. Mostly, those kinds of guys are really ugly, and they ask really pretty girls to do that because they want to prove you are on their level or lower level than them. Remember that low-value men are always into looks, they do not even go on well-off and respectable girls.
As for me, it is not a good sign if a guy asks that upfront. I never met a high-value man who talked that way to a woman. I suggest getting to know the guy and at least being friends with that person first and doing activities together in real life. It will strengthen your friendship, and they can see you all as natural without sounding like a jerk. Oh, and may I add, do not enter LDR or long-distance relationships. That is not even a real relationship, to begin with. You are just wasting your potential on authentic people around you who are willing to get to know you. If you really like a man but he lives far away, there should be a time when you guys should both meet in real life (do not let it slide for a year!) or else you are just wasting your time. And let’s be honest now, high-value men will literally fly to you if they want things to work.
If you are looking for high-value men, make sure you are high-value yourself too, babes. Do not look for men just to retire or you just want to be in a relationship. I suggest reading at least two books a year minimum and writing a reflection and summary of what you learned about it. Do you like to be challenged more? Read articles and content posted on social sites and try to decipher if it is legit news or not. Fake news is everywhere, and it is an interesting habit to research and double-check things online. Upscale, take care of yourself, and be the best version of yourself through workshops, self-study, and networking with like-minded individuals. Eat healthy and be hygienic!
High-value men will treat you well and spoil you without even asking! They will not even pressure you to be in anything. As for myself, I do not like men to pay for everything but once I meet this kind of guy who insists on taking care of everything even though we are just acquaintances and business partners, it will change the way you see men. And, usually, their wives and girlfriends don't post publicly a lot of the things that these guys spoil them. I am a friend of a few trusted women with high-value men in their lives. These girls are very private like me. I also do not recommend being so public when you find this kind of man because I believe envy from others gives off bad vibes and energy. Just look at the influencers' and celebrities' lives, they are so public that the jealousy and envy of people with whatever they have is passed onto them. Energy transfer is real. I had a very strong faith and belief that I block bad vibes with it but I will not discuss it here.
Usually, guys who are gentlemen and spoil women have many other guys jealous of them. It is because of this equation, that I created and believe to be true based on a handful of books I had read.
🟡 Psychology of men and women equation:
Men = Wants validation from other men
Women = Wants validation from men
You see, men will do everything to be validated by other men. They wanna be appreciated by other men. They usually woo a woman they can show off to other men. So other men will compliment them on how manly and lucky they are.
Do you see that equation? So stop hating on decent high-value women babes. We usually hate what we want to become and it’s because of jealousy. Do you see how men team up and hype themselves up but we girlies need to hate each other? Why? Why do you need validation from men only? It’s time to change that mindset!
Notice how a guy acts differently around you versus how he acts in front of his peers? He doesn’t want other guys to see that he is being a good guy to you or the men around him will tell him how he is under or a simp.
If a guy acts differently in front of you versus when he is with his peers then run girlie! High-value men don’t do that. Especially confident and well-off guys. They will not hide their affection from you because good men know their boundaries outside and will only treat you well. If a guy acts like a 12-year-old and is teased by his peers for protecting and being sweet to a girl, do not trust that guy and his group.
Confident men may still seek validation from men but not to the point that they will try to humiliate a girl just to satisfy other (men) people. Remember that.
🟡 What should the equation be?
Men= Validation from themselves
Women= Validation from themselves
You see, argument and envy are rooted in seeking validation from anyone. The key is to create and focus on a passion and be happy creating it without thinking of how many should see it or how many likes you will get. Do not make social media your source of validation. Unless your hobby and passion is acting on screen then we can’t deny you may need to be seen by several people. But be happy with the process itself, not on how people will like it. Accept only constructive criticism and block the rest.
🟡 Ask yourself these things:
Am I cosplaying to be liked by men? Am I posting thirst traps to be liked by men? Why am I wearing what I wear today? Is it to be liked by men? Try to reflect on your interests and hobbies. What if men don’t exist, will you still wear what you are wearing? Will your actions change if no man is around? If the answer is yes, then it’s time to analyze things. By doing this, you will discover your own style and passion. You have to be the first person to like what you are doing, not by anyone.
Girlies, it is okay if you want validation of your own man and if you guys are already in a relationship. But begging for attention and validation by a whole gender is really not the way to go.
Be the main character of your life! You only live once and be smart enough to maximize your time here on earth to eradicate negative types of people who don't bring anything to the table. Anyone who doesn't bring you money has no business with you. It’s not your chore to reply and waste energy on any activity that does not benefit you.
🟡 Do you need more convincing?
They resent the fact that women have power over them, and it fuels their bitterness and hatred. This obsession stems from inadequacy and fear of being overlooked or devalued. It is a destructive mindset that can be harmful to both men and women, perpetuating a cycle of distrust, resentment, and aggression. It is time to change this paradigm and embrace a healthier view of women and masculinity.
Some men are so jealous of women that they try to be a girl. Creating fake female profiles, joining women's sports, and so on. They also mimic and try to copy the personality, style, and personality of the women they are envious of.
Other guys will create a problem. Yes, a problem in which they will pretend to be the savior of the problem they carefully curated. Some would even team up with other men and women to bully you and make fun of you so they can appear as your knight and shining armor when in reality they made it all up. You see, this world is not as nice as we read in fairytales.
Some men exhibit a strong preoccupation or fixation on belittling, demeaning, or disrespecting women. This behavior can manifest in various forms, such as objectifying women, using derogatory language, promoting stereotypes, or engaging in abusive behavior.
🟡 So what should you do to be a better version of yourself and find like-minded women and men?
🌷 1. Stop being friends with people pleasers. These people will believe in anything and do anything just to gain the sympathy of the masses, or whatever will suit their tastes. These kinds of people are usually dishonest in their own lives.
🌷 2. Don't be a fanatic about anyone or anything. Stop subbing on OnlyFans and other subscriptions that give very little value and content. Can you really afford to subscribe? If it takes a big chunk of your income, then you cannot afford it. It is okay to admire public figures but do not let that be the main subject of your life. Being a fan only encourages you to spend money on useless things and disorganize your thoughts. It can be unhealthy. You can read articles about K-pop and anime fans who had no life and got rotten to the core because of their obsession.
🌷 3. Be private. It’s okay to share a little life update here and there, but do not overshare. If you really need to let it all out, then make an alt account to ask for advice. People can be obsessive and can doxx you. I experience it myself, and being stalked is not a pleasant thing. Your life could be in danger.
🌷 4. In general, avoid dramatic, negative, and gossiping people. Great minds discuss ideas and plans, not the private lives of other people who have no direct impact on their lives. Those kinds of people are of low value, and you should avoid them at all costs.
🌷 5. Avoid and stop being friends with people who make bad remarks as a joke. Usually, this kind of person who always tries to bring you down by back-handed comments and mean things will reason out it is just a joke. You are in the wrong crowd if a friend does this. I haven’t met a high-value man or woman who has this habit. Most of the decent humans I know will not even try to go low doing that. If it happened once or twice then maybe you can let it pass but if that is that person's personality, girl, you know what to do. Ditch them. They only give bad vibes and energy to your life.
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